{"id":2735,"date":"2013-08-07T19:05:40","date_gmt":"2013-08-07T19:05:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.philippinesentinel.org\/?p=2735"},"modified":"2013-08-07T19:05:40","modified_gmt":"2013-08-07T19:05:40","slug":"girl-11-speaks-out-over-her-forced-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.philippinesentinel.org\/?p=2735","title":{"rendered":"Girl, 11, speaks out over her forced marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In a video released on LiveLeak, Nada Al-Ahdal said she was forced to flee [from her family] and live with her uncle after she was promised to another man.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;They told me that I am engaged, and that my fianc\u00e9 had already paid them money and brought the engagement ring,&#8221; Nada tells the camera.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;They said that I couldn&#8217;t leave and even threatened to kill me if I went back to my uncle.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The video was released by the Middle East Research Institute, a non-profit press monitoring organisation based in the US.<\/p>\n<p>The girl says a common response from child brides is to commit suicide when faced with a forced marriage.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m not an item for sale, I&#8217;m a human being and I would rather die than get married at this age.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;ve decided that I have two choices: to leave or to die. So I chose the first.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The video is quickly going viral on the internet. Thanks to sharing through social media and websites like Reddit. (<strong>Source: <\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.liveleak.com\/view?i=f76_1374406429\"><strong>LiveLeak<\/strong><\/a>)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Forced marriage<\/strong> is a marriage in which one or both of the parties is <a title=\"Marriage\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Marriage\">married<\/a> without his or her consent or against his or her will. A forced marriage differs from an <a title=\"Arranged marriage\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Arranged_marriage\">arranged marriage<\/a>, in which both parties consent to the assistance of their parents or a third party (such as a <a title=\"Matchmaking\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Matchmaking\">matchmaker<\/a>) in identifying a spouse, although the difference between the two may be indistinct.<\/p>\n<p>The practice of forced marriage is still practiced in many parts of <a title=\"South Asia\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/South_Asia\">South Asia<\/a>, <a title=\"East Asia\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/East_Asia\">East Asia<\/a> and <a title=\"Africa\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Africa\">Africa<\/a> and among immigrants to the West from these regions.<\/p>\n<p>Some scholars object to use of the term &#8220;forced marriage&#8221; because it invokes the consensual legitimating language of marriage (such as husband\/wife) for an experience that is precisely the opposite. A variety of alternatives exist, including forced conjugal association, and conjugal slavery.<\/p>\n<p>The <a title=\"United Nations\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/United_Nations\">United Nations<\/a> views forced marriage as a form of <a title=\"Human rights abuse\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Human_rights_abuse\">human rights abuse<\/a>, since it violates the principle of the <a title=\"Free will\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Free_will\">freedom<\/a> and autonomy of individuals. The <a title=\"Universal Declaration of Human Rights\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Universal_Declaration_of_Human_Rights\">Universal Declaration of Human Rights<\/a> states that a women&#8217;s right to choose a spouse and enter freely into marriage is central to her life and <a title=\"Dignity\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Dignity\">dignity<\/a>, and <a title=\"Equality before the law\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Equality_before_the_law\">equality<\/a> as a human being. The <a title=\"Roman Catholic Church\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Roman_Catholic_Church\">Roman Catholic Church<\/a> deems forced marriage grounds for granting an <a title=\"Annulment (Catholic Church)\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Annulment_%28Catholic_Church%29\">annulment<\/a> \u2014 for a marriage to be valid both parties must give their consent freely. <a title=\"Supplementary Convention on the Abolition of Slavery\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Supplementary_Convention_on_the_Abolition_of_Slavery\">Supplementary Convention on the Abolition of Slavery<\/a> also prohibits marriage without right to refuse of herself out of her parents&#8217;, family&#8217;s and other persons&#8217; will and requires the <a title=\"Marriageable age\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Marriageable_age\">minimum age for marriage<\/a> to prevent this. <strong>(Source: Wikipedia)<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In a video released on LiveLeak, Nada Al-Ahdal said she was forced to flee [from her family] and live with her uncle after she was promised to another man.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[37,49],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.philippinesentinel.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2735"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.philippinesentinel.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.philippinesentinel.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.philippinesentinel.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.philippinesentinel.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2735"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.philippinesentinel.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2735\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.philippinesentinel.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2735"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.philippinesentinel.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2735"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.philippinesentinel.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2735"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}