{"id":5013,"date":"2018-04-27T04:38:31","date_gmt":"2018-04-26T18:38:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.philippinesentinel.org\/?p=5013"},"modified":"2018-04-27T04:38:31","modified_gmt":"2018-04-26T18:38:31","slug":"cab-driver-takes-old-woman-into-a-retirement-home","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.philippinesentinel.org\/?p=5013","title":{"rendered":"Cab driver takes old woman into a retirement home"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I arrived at the address and honked the horn. After waiting a few minutes, I honked again. Since this was going to be the last ride&nbsp;of my shift, I thought about just driving&nbsp;away, but instead walked up to the door and knocked.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Just a minute&#8217;, answered a frail, elderly voice. I could hear something being dragged across the floor.&nbsp;After a long pause, the door opened.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>A small woman in her 90&#8217;s stood before me. She was wearing a print dress and a pillbox hat with a veil pinned on it, like somebody out of a 1940&#8217;s movie.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>By her side was a small nylon suitcase.&nbsp;The apartment looked as if no one had&nbsp;lived in it for years. All the furniture was&nbsp;covered with sheets.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>There was no clock on the wall,&nbsp;no knickknacks on the counters.&nbsp;&#8216;Would you carry my bag out to the car?&#8217; she asked.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I took the suitcase to the cab, then returned&nbsp;to assist&nbsp;the woman. She took my arm and we walked slowly&nbsp;toward the curb. She kept thanking me.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;It&#8217;s nothing&#8217;, I told her. &#8216;I just try to treat&nbsp;my passengers&nbsp;the way I would want&nbsp;my mother to be treated.&#8217; &#8216;Oh, you&#8217;re such a good boy, she said.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>When we got in the cab, she gave me an address&nbsp;and then asked, &#8216;Could you drive through downtown?&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;It&#8217;s not the shortest way,&#8217;&nbsp;I answered quickly. &#8216;Oh, I don&#8217;t mind,&#8217; she said. &#8216;I&#8217;m in no hurry. I&#8217;m on my way to a hospice.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I looked in the rear-view mirror.&nbsp;Her eyes were&nbsp;glistening. &#8216;I don&#8217;t have any family left,&#8217;&nbsp;she continued in a soft voice.&nbsp;&#8216;The doctor says I don&#8217;t have very long to live.&#8217; I quietly reached over and shut off the&nbsp;meter. &#8216;What route would you like me to take?&#8217;&nbsp;I asked.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>For the next two hours,&nbsp;we drove through the city. She showed me the building where&nbsp;she had once worked as an elevator operator. We drove through the neighbourhood&nbsp;where she&nbsp;and her husband had lived&nbsp;when they were newlyweds. She had me pull up in front of a furniture&nbsp;warehouse that had once been a ballroom where she had been dancing as a girl. Sometimes she&#8217;d ask me to slow down in front&nbsp;of a particular building or corner and would&nbsp;sit staring into the darkness, saying nothing.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>As the first hint of sun was creasing&nbsp;the horizon, she suddenly said,&nbsp;&#8216;I&#8217;m tired. Let&#8217;s go now&#8230;&#8217; We drove in silence to the address she had given me.&nbsp;It was a low building, like a small convalescent home.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Two orderlies came out to the cab. They were solicitous, watching her every move. They must have been expecting her.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I opened the trunk and took the small suitcase to&nbsp;the door. The woman was already seated in a wheelchair.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;How much do I owe you?&#8217; She asked,&nbsp;reaching into her purse. &#8216;Nothing,&#8217; I answered. &#8216;You have to make a living,&#8217; she said. &#8216;There are other passengers,&#8217; I responded. Almost without thinking,&nbsp;I bent and gave her a hug.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>She held onto me tightly. &#8216;You gave an old woman a little moment of joy,&#8217; she said: &#8216;Thank you.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I squeezed her hand, and then walked&nbsp;into the dim morning light.&nbsp;Behind me, a door shut.&nbsp;It was the sound of the closing of a life. I didn&#8217;t pick up any more passengers&nbsp;that shift. &nbsp;I drove aimlessly&nbsp;lost in thought.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>For the rest of that day, I could hardly talk.&nbsp;What if that woman had gotten an angry&nbsp;driver, or one who was impatient to&nbsp;end his shift? What if I had refused to take the run,&nbsp;or had honked once, then driven away? On a quick review, I don&#8217;t think that I have done&nbsp;anything more important in my life.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>People may not remember exactly what you did or what you said, but they will always remember how you made them feel. <\/strong><strong>(Author Unknown)<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I arrived at the address and honked the horn. After waiting a few minutes, I honked again. 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